We’re going to be outnumbered!
coming July 2019
Sometime last year my husband and I decided that three kids would be good for us. Our two are getting slightly older and we were ready to tackle being outnumbered. Our first two came so easily. I never thought that we’d have trouble with a third…
Yet, here we are…
This past March I was feeling a little funky one morning. Decided to take a pregnancy test. Sure enough, positive. It was a pretty faint positive but I figured it was just because I was so early on. I went to the doctors the next day for bloodwork and started bleeding shortly after. My HCG count was only 15 and my progesterone level was dangerously low at 0.7— AKA, a chemical pregnancy.
I was a little discouraged because as soon as you see a positive pregnancy test the excitement kicks in. I was happy at least because I was able to get pregnant.
I tracked ovulation the best that I could. My doctor put me on progesterone supplements to take. I was doing everything right. Nothing was happening. I was discouraged and just kind of threw my hands in the air and stopped caring after several cycles.
Fast forward a few months, here we are in July.
Same thing. I was feeling sluggish and just slightly off so I decided to take another test. Positive. More positive looking than the first one. This was a Saturday morning so I took another one Sunday. Another one Monday. They were all getting slightly darker and I thought, “yup, this is it.”
I called the doctors office Monday and they told me that my doctor wasn’t in but they would call me the following day to see what she wanted me to do. I scheduled an ultrasound appointment for when I would be 8 weeks. The next day she called me in to do the same blood tests as before… HCG & Progesterone.
Driving home from my blood draw, I started bleeding.
It was also one of the most traumatic blood draws of my life. Proof.
So I called the office the following day with my period in full effect. I told the nurse what was happening and got my results. My HCG was 19 and my progesterone a whopping 9.8 —- wayyyyy too low. Again, another chemical pregnancy.
So my next step is waiting until that “8 week pregnancy” appointment and just having a chat with my doctor. They plan on doing a full workup and seeing if they can find any reason this keeps happening other than the fact that I know I ovulate late and my progesterone sucks.
I’m quite stuck between a rock and a hard place on this one. We want a third and I think later in life I’ll be mad at myself if I don’t give it an honest try. I’m not talking IVF honest try because that’s not for our family but at least a good workup and possibly some medications.
We’ll see. For all of you struggling with secondary infertility, you’re not alone.
Finding out that you’re pregnant is one of the most emotional times in your life. It feels like one second it’s just you in your body and as soon as that stick tells you otherwise… You’re creating and protecting another tiny little human. It’s a moment filled with all different emotions for everyone. For me, especially the first time, it was shock, excitement, and nervousness.
As many of you know, I have two children. I have only been pregnant twice. With my first, my son Everett, I was not expecting to get that results that I got. My husband was living in Texas and I was finishing up my last 5 months of school before moving down there to be with him. We weren’t thinking that we were going to start a family anytime soon. The world had different plans for us. I was sharing a bottle of wine (or five) with my roommate and found a pregnancy test in one of my drawers. As a joke, I decided to take it. Well, joke was on me. I was in complete shock. It was probably the greatest shock the universe has ever thrown at me.
With Aria, my second child, my husband and I were actually trying. I went off of birth control about 2 months prior and we were just playing the “lets see what happens game.” I had a girlfriend over the night before and we had a few beers. The next morning I woke up and felt AWFUL. It was beyond just hungover and I didn’t drink nearly enough to cause the way I was feeling. I decided to take a test. Thus Aria made her announcement. I actually used the Clearblue weeks estimator and got the same 1-2 as pictured above. I was about 3-4 weeks pregnant at that point!
Oh, and with BOTH pregnancies in the very early weeks I had the strangest eye twitch. My left eye would randomly twitch for hours on end. It was happening before I tested with both of them. You’d think I was have remembered that the second time it started happening again but mommy brain is a real thing.
This topic of how you knew you were pregnant is so interesting to me I decided to ask my followers on my Facebook fan page. It’s amazing how everyones body reacts so different to these changes. A few of the responses are…
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You have exercised for the last several years, and you’ve been really diligent with it. Now it’s time to start a family. You’ve heard that there are wonderful exercise programs that you can use during a pregnancy, but you wonder what will work for you. Consider the advantages of the water – not for swimming, but for aqua aerobics.
A gym in the water. When you become pregnant, your body will be undergoing plenty of changes. Why not find a workout routine that you can do the whole time you are carrying? Aqua aerobics is safe throughout a pregnancy, and it’s not just one option – think of aqua aerobics as a gym in the water. You can perform a whole variety of water exercises that will provide a low impact alternative to a gym workout. Consider being able to get in a cardio workout, with the gentle coolness of the water supporting your body and easing aching muscles. Here are some great resources with more information about water workouts during pregnancy:
The buoyancy of water. One of the biggest advantages of water workouts – the body only has to support a fraction of its own weight, due to the effect of buoyancy. You feel a lightness in the water, which will give your joints a break, especially your knees and ankles. Consider being able to even get in some weight work, but standing in the coolness of that water, with your body feeling very light. Those bicep curls you do with water weights will really improve your strength – which will later come in handy when you’re carrying the baby around the house.
So you can’t swim? That’s not a problem, because most aqua aerobics routines take place in water that is no more than chest deep. You will stand with your feet firmly on the bottom during almost every exercise, and if there’s one that takes place in the deep end – just skip that one.
Check with the doctor. Especially if you’re just starting out with exercise, be sure to have your doctor clear you for workouts, and make sure you follow his guidance.
Get in your cardio workout. One of the most enjoyable exercise sessions with a great cardio benefit is an aqua walk. Just head to the indoor community pool when the lap lanes are open, and begin walking up and down a lane, just like you would at the park. The soothing coolness of the water will actually become a relaxing component as you mellow into a walking rhythm. Time will pass quickly, you’ll feel great afterward, and be completely refreshed. Put a water bottle at the end of the lane, because though it won’t feel like it because you’re in the water, you’ll be sweating some. Imagine how great that walk will feel in the summer when it’s too hot to do anything outdoors.
Practice moderation. Sure, you may have been a competitive runner in college, but you have a different priority now – you’re exercising for two. Don’t overdo your workouts. In the first trimester, a workout can include at least 30 minutes of cardio around 5 days a week. By the second trimester, taper back the cardio to 2 to 3 days a week, and use lighter weights. By the third trimester you’ll be cutting back on the exercise, so always be aware as your body changes, and be moderate in your exercise expectations.
Smile as you walk in the water, knowing you are doing something that will keep both you and your baby in top health.
Kaitlin Gardner started AnApplePerDay.com to further her passion for a family friendly, green living lifestyle. She is married to her college sweetheart and lives in Pennsylvania. She and her husband enjoy going for long hikes, to get out and enjoy nature. She is working on her first book about ways to live an eco-friendly, healthy, natural life.
I have some really “type A” personality tendencies. I just like things to be organized, have a plan, and run smoothly. If things are unknown and disorderly, I get a little stressed about them. So before even going to the hospital or starting labor I compiled a little checklist to make sure things go smoothly when I’m away. I also figured that this list would make the transition back home a little more bearable.
Now, with all that done I feel a bit more ready and complete.
With that being said there are still a few things that I’m waiting to do till she’s born that are slightly stressing me out. They are all things that I kind of need her here to determine so I just have to get over it.
Last weekend I got the pleasure of shooting a few maternity shots with a local San Antonio Maternity Photographer, Ivy Rose Photography. I wasn’t originally planning on doing a maternity shoot since I didn’t do one with Everett, but I’m so glad that I did.
Melanie was absolutely fantastic. She’s professional and does a great job of not making you feel awkward in front of the camera. I’ll let her photo’s speak for themselves. So if you’re in San Antonio and looking for a great local San Antonio Maternity Photographer, check out Ivy Rose! You can also find her on Facebook here.
I need to start off this post by sending off an apology to my family. I can already see my mothers face as she’s reading this shaking her head in disappointment that her daughter is talking about shaving private areas on the internet. No mom, I won’t take this down. It’s meant to be funny so just sit back and have a little chuckle. Oh, and mom! You should start commenting on things instead of just calling me and yelling about them. The internet would love you!
As pregnant women everywhere know there comes a point in your pregnancy where your belly covers your lady bits and you’re no longer able to see them. It’s the inevitable so if you’re into keeping up with yourself you need to formulate a plan for when this time comes. A lot of people suggest a mirror. They either fog up on me or I almost fall trying to hold it. I’m clumsy as it is but adding twenty some pounds to the front of my body doesn’t help. Other women have suggested just having your partner do it for you…
I thought about it. I thought long and hard about it. I even went as to far as to ask my husband if he’d do it for me. He agreed. Then, I thought more. Have you ever seen a man shave his face? It’s not gentle in fact it’s totally violent. They run that thing over their faces with out any care and don’t even look at what they’re doing. My husband currently is just shaving his face with the head of the razor because he somehow lost the handle. That’s how “careful” he is about it. It’s terrifying to think that I would even entertain the idea of handing my husband something that can be used as a weapon and asking him to do something so personal. Sure, you can tell them what to do but it takes one slip of the hand and you’ve got an issue on your hand.
Be brave and share. Has anyone let their significant other do this for them? I need some real life experiences here!
I think I’ll stick to doing it blind or go pay for a damn wax.
When I’m not pregnant my dreams are pretty timid and what I consider to be normal; that is if I even remember them at all. Apparently, during pregnancy all of the extra hormones make sleep time more like I’m watching some kind of crazy movie. I’m not sure if I’m actually tired all the time or just anxious to get to sleep to see what is going to happen that night.
I knew I couldn’t be alone in this strange symptom and after doing some research I learned that I’m definitely not. Apparently the reasoning behind being able to remember a lot more has to do with the fact that most sleep during pregnancy is being interrupted. You’re constantly tossing, turning, waking to run to the bathroom, or even stirring because of anxiety. It’s all completely normal. As for the topics of dreams being crazier than normal; that has to do with a surge of progesterone. I guess for me I just like to have a scientific reasoning behind it.
Now, a lot of my research has brought out my curiosity to start to “decode” these vivid dreams. I really don’t believe in any of that and still don’t much after looking into it more. A lot of what I found was very vague and just tells me that my dreams are representing my fears. I don’t think I’m afraid of my husband buying me a horse and me naming him Bubbles. Nope, that’d actually be fantastic. Maybe I should dig a little deeper into that dream and say I’m afraid of baby girl coming out the size of a horse. Yes, now that’d be terrifying.
Lets get a little personal now! Here are a few of my crazy dreams from the past few weeks.
I think I’m going to start a “dream diary” to document these because they are that funny. Anyone brave enough to share some of their dreams? GO!
I know a lot of couples that from the second they get a confirmation that they’re expecting they’re already wondering what sex the baby is going to be. Some are patient and want that delivery room surprise; I am not that person. I found myself on google looking at all the old wives tales and researching the difference between boy and girl pregnancies. I know that every pregnancy is different and none of it is a science but it’s still fun! So, now that I’m further along and know for sure that this second baby is indeed a girl I decided to make note of all the differences between my two pregnancies that may or may not be an indication that this one was a different sex than my first! Again, obviously none of this is a science or researched, it’s just my opinion.
For example, this is me at 26 weeks with Everett. It’s basically exactly what my belly looks like now at 17 weeks. I’m a tad smaller but not much!
If you’ve had pregnancies with opposite sexes, I’d love to hear of any differences that you’ve noticed!