Aria turns THREE [featuring Blue Bunny Ice Cream Cake]

This past week my youngest little love, Aria, turned three. It’s incredible how fast the passed few years have flown by. I blogged my entire pregnancy so I know I have a lot of readers that are with me thinking, “how is she three?!” I know guys, I know.

Her actual birthday was Friday June 9th. My parents flew into town from Detroit to come and celebrate with her. We decided to have a smaller more intimate party on her actual birthday before the big party the following day. Just a few of her favorite things; pizza, gifts, and of course ice cream cake.

Aria Blue Bunny Ice Cream Cake

Nothing beats the smile on her face when she saw the cake and we were singing too her.

So for the cake we went with a Blue Bunny vanilla bean blondie cake that I was able to just pick up while grocery shopping at Walmart. I already had so much to do with getting my house ready for a big party, I didn’t need yet another stop to grab a cake from a speciality store. It was absolutely delicious and perfect for this smaller occasion.

Blue Bunny Ice Cream Cake

After we chowed down on some pizza and ice cream cake, it was time for a couple of presents. We let her open the gifts from my parents, my husbands parents, and us. You could tell how special she felt having the evening be just about her. I really don’t think that birthdays need to be extravagant for the child to have an amazing time. This simple evening was perfect. She was beyond excited and it was minimal stress on everyone else!


I have included a $3.00 off coupon that is redeemable at Walmart only for a Blue Bunny ice cream cake of your own! Along with the coupon below, be sure to check the Valpak envelope that comes in the mail for an additional $3.00 off!

She had such a great birthday, was beyond spoiled, and I feel very lucky to have such great family and friends that are apart of our lives. Her big party on Saturday was amazing but Friday was fantastic as well. Of course, in typical me fashion, I completely was engrossed in the party on Saturday and didn’t take one single picture. Luckily for me, a few friends took pictures. Hey, at least I got these few!

My Child: The Great Sharpie Thief


My daughter is a Sharpie addict.
She is a Sharpie thief and / or hoarder.

Aria is just over two years old and can’t control herself when there is any type of marker around. She colors so nice on paper with crayons but when theres a marker she has to mark every single thing she can find. I have to use Sharpies at work and I use them really often in my paper planning stuff. So, there is nothing I can do about them being in the house. I figured that putting them up on a shelf, on the kitchen counter, or even on my tallest dresser in my room was enough. I was wrong.


I’d like to say that this was the first time that anything like this happened but that would be a lie. This is about the 7th time. Each time it happens I move the markers to a different spot or hide them but somehow she finds another marker and it happens all over again. I’m convinced she has a stash hidden somewhere that I’m not aware of.

I went to the kitchen to make myself a bagel. It takes about 3 minutes for the bagel to toast and another minute to put the cream cheese on it. In 4 minutes she found a sharpie and colored my planner, her hands, her feet, my desk, my desk chair, my brand new computer, and her face. I can’t even you guys.


I’m a weirdo about my planner so as soon as this happened… I knew I was doing absolutely nothing Monday- Wednesday that week.

Now you want to know to get sharpie out of stuff and off your child?

You don’t.

You throw out everything or live with the annoying black marks.

You let your child walk around looking like a damn zebra and live in their stripes.



My Daughter is a Squirrel

Squirrels are really high up there on my list of favorite animals. I love watching them scurry around the yard and hide things in the nests in the trees. They make really cute little squeaky noises, have adorable bushy tails, and by far the most adorable little noses.

I loved them a lot more before my daughter turned into one.


My Reasons Aria is basically a squirrel are as follows…

  • The girl makes nests out of everything. It’s pretty cute when she cuddles up in things that she’s supposed to, like blankets. It’s not so cute when you leave her alone for two minutes and she empties out your drawers and burrows in your clean clothes.
  • Some squirrels really like “dens” at the base of trees. Aria also likes creating a den in just about everything she can squeeze into. Her favorite places include behind the couch, behind my stand up mirror in my room, under the kitchen table, and behind the art easel in the living room. Again, pretty cute routine toddler behavior except she screams bloody murder almost every time because she is either stuck or whacks her head on something.
  • Squirrels tend to bury things so other predators don’t find what it is that they’re hiding. Well, apparently in this house my husband and I are huge predators. This girl can hide things so well that we literally tear the house apart and can’t find what it is that we’re looking for. This has happened to so many things including approximately 8,000 pacifiers and most recently, the baby monitor.  I’ve looked everyday for going on 3 weeks now and there is no sign of the damn thing.

Squirrels are cute until they ruin your clothes, hide all your things, and eat all the snacks in the house [okay, that last one is just every kid]

A Letter To My Baby Girl on Her First Birthday



Today you’re 365 days old. I’ve been lucky to call myself your mom for the past year. I vividly remember the second I found out that I would be having a little girl. It was one of the most exciting moments of my life. I thought to myself, “One day her brother will leave the nest, get married, and have a new main woman in his life. This little girl will be forever my best girl friend.” It’s been a crazy year to say the least. You were born in Texas and shortly after we moved to Michigan before finally settling down in Georgia. You took all the moving around like a champion. You won’t remember not staying in one spot as an infant but I look forward to the day that you ask me why you have a Texas birth certificate. It’ll make for such a fun story.

You were not always the easiest of babies, little girl. As you transition into a toddler, you’re still quite the firecracker. You know what you want and when you want it. In that way, you’re a lot like me.  When you’re feeling up to it, you’re also extremely sweet. I think that you get that side of you from your dad. Although I may be biased, you’re by far the most beautiful babies I’ve ever laid my eyes on.

I’m so proud to call you mine. I wish that I could keep you small forever but I can’t wait to see what the future has in store for you.

Happy First Birthday Aria Jane.


aria teething necklace



Aria’s First Birthday Party [Photo Recap]


With being a blogger and a mother, you’d think I’d be a little bit better about capturing memories on film. I tend to just live in the heat of the moment and always forget to have my camera around. I tried to be a little better about my daughters first birthday… but so much happened that I missed. I guess that is always going to be the case unless you’re video recording every second. Hey, nobody’s got time for that.

The party was last Saturday (May 30th) in our backyard here in Georgia. If you’re a frequent flier around my blog, you already know our immediate family and a lot of friends are literally scattered across the US.  Despite the distance, we had such a fantastic turnout and really felt the love for our baby girl. Several people traveled hundreds upon hundreds of miles just so they could be apart of Aria’s special day. For that, we’re extremely grateful.


I kept the decor pretty tame and went with a little “luau” inspired theme. It was cheap, easy, and adorable. I rented a bounce house for the few children that would be there. If I’m going to be honest with myself, I rented it  to keep my 2 and a half year old son occupied.


As you can see, it didn’t work. He was really good but couldn’t handle the fact that all the attention wasn’t on him.


Along with her Matilda Jane knot top, her Freshly Picked Moccasins, and Adorable Essentials shorties, Aria wore this adorable crown from Birdy Boutique. It was just the most adorable accessory to have for her first birthday. A girl has got to look as good as she feels, right?


We sang.


Chowed down on sweets.


Got spoiled with gifts.


The slip and slide made its appearance for the older kids.




Overall it was a fantastic party and such a fun day filled with love over our baby girl. Excuse me, toddler.

At Home Smash Cake Session Featuring Prim Posies


The smash cake has to be one of my favorite “traditions” as far as the first year goes. There isn’t too much cuter than witnessing what your child is going to do with a giant, sugar filled, delicious cake in front of them. I’m not one of those mom’s who is worried about a little bit of sugar with my babies so I enjoy letting them go to town.

I wish I could afford to have a professional photographer capture these types of events for me but, like a lot of people, it’s just not in the budget. I have a fantastic camera that I use for blogging and while I’m still learning how to use it… I think these turned out pretty great.

A few tips I used:

  • Play with your setting before you get the child and the cake out there. Take a few blank practice shots so you can see what you’re going to be working with.
  • Work outdoors. The lighting is just that much better. Clean up is also much easier.
  • Take the pictures in the evening hours when the sun is going down. I don’t know the science behind this but I’ve tried to photograph during the day and the light was just overkill.
  • Choose a blank backdrop. As you can see, I used our wooden fence. You don’t want something that is going to distract from your subject.

There’s no surprise with my little garbage disposal we call Aria, she went to town on it. She probably would have ate the entire 4 pounds of cake if I let her.

smashcake2She was slightly hesitant at first but the second the sugar got to her lips she was all in. She can be a little dainty at times so it took her a while to really make a mess but as you can see, she did.

smashcake5There was no way that I was going to keep her older brother away from cake for more than 10 minutes. He patiently waited for the okay from me and had a few tastes himself.


I swear to you this is her excited face. She does it all the time when we make a “snorting” sound trying to copy us. I couldn’t not capture this face full of cake and showing off her two new top teeth.

Now: The Outfit.


We were given the adorable cupcake romper for this photo shoot from Prim Posies. I can’t even properly put it into words how happy I am with both the romper and the shop owner, Kimberly. The romper is adorable as you can already see and it is completely handmade besides for the fabric itself. I love the fact that you can’t just run out and buy one at the store. It brings so much more individuality to your child’s wardrobe and allows them to look as unique as we know they are.

The fact that this is handmade is one thing. The fact that it is handmade well is another. I have purchased many things made that were flawed. I know how hard it is to make things like this but when a button falls off taking it out of of the package… That’s a problem. I can assure you that Prim Posies is quality. Every seam is practically perfect and it fit Aria amazing.


Prim Posies has an Etsy shop that you can find here. She has the most adorable things up for sale and can even accommodate custom orders. I’ve got to know her a little bit working with her the past month so I know that her shop will be “on vacation” for a little while in June since she will be in Greece on her honeymoon. After that though, It’s back to work! To follow along with all the new styles and updates of Prim Posies you can find her on Facebook!

Why I’m Waiting To Pierce My Daughters Ears


It seems like this can be one of those “hot topics” that gets really heated in the mommy community. Everyone has their own opinion on it and this is mine. I really only have two reasons why I’m 100% waiting until she asks me.

  • It’s her body. It’s not mine. I don’t feel like I have the right to modify her body in anyway that isn’t medically necessary. I understand that these earrings can be taken out and the hole can pretty much close up on it’s own but every body is different. Every healing process is different. It is possible that it might not close especially after being in for a long period of time.
  • I am against piercing guns. I will only go to a licensed piercer and have a needle used. Most piercers will only do the procedure if the child is able to verbally say that they would like it done.

Now, why am I against piercing guns?

  • They are one size fits all. Most of these guns are not expandable which means some people may find that the earrings are too tight. There is often little room to move the backing from the ear because the posts are short.
  • It’s piercing with blunt force trauma. You’re forcing a not so sharp earring into the lobe. OUCH.
  • Lack of training. Was your piercer actually trained? You think that 18 year old girl at Claires really has a lot of experience? I’m not trusting it.

I know it’s common practice in many cultures right after birth. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, it’s actually even really safe. It’s just not for me. I’m sure one day it’ll be for her.


Planning Aria’s First Birthday


If you make a big deal out of any birthday, I really think that it should be the first one. I’m not exactly sure why because it’s not like they’re going to remember it or anything. Hey, whatever. It’s what I think.
Aria will be turning one on June 9th. I can’t believe that almost a year has passed. I have already begun the planning process. We have a lot of family from out of town so I wanted to get things to them early in case they are able to make the trip. I was just going to make the invitations but once I get into party planning mode, I can’t seem to stop.

My original idea was to do a ONEderland party. You know, Alice in Wonderland themed bash. It’s a super cute idea and I’m still in love with it. I just couldn’t put the image I had in my head into action without spending an insane amount of money on decorations and party supplies. I decided to go with a pretty common but still adorable theme, the Luau. I have been able to find so many cute things to go all out around here at a decent price.

Credit: Oriental Trading Company

Credit: Oriental Trading Company

I couldn’t say no to this Pinata. The reviews complain that it’s hard to break. The small amount of young kids won’t be able to break anything you give them anyways. I just really like watching them scramble for candy after the semi-drunk adults have to break it open.

aria invite edited

I didn’t go with a Luau themed party invitation but whatever. I thought this one was adorable. I ended up using Vista Print and putting my own twist on the template. The best part was they were less than a dollar a piece. Can’t beat that.

So, if anyone has any great ideas for a Luau party… Start throwing them my way! I have about 6 weeks to finish planning everything. Including the menu.

Oh, and a pig roast is really expensive here. I learned that today.